Harmony vs. Balance in Life

well this is i mean i'll always coin the term like not necessarily balance but harmony in life you know because balance itself means equal distribution to all aspects but we're never going to get that that's good i like that you know it says harmony so if i look at um i'm never going to be a successful bodybuilder i'm never going to well i wouldn't say i'm not going to say i'm never going to win but i'll give it my best shot if i was to step on stage but that then it's that going down the route's going to come at a cost of dieting and potentially affecting relationships or whatever because I'm consumed by that. So the harmony is understanding that certain things will have to be put in the backburn for this to go ahead. So that's not balance, is it?