The Importance of the Nuclear Family

bingo the make the good men are slowly diminishing yeah it's uh it's we've got this point where you have broken families there's no father figure and boys need to be raised by their mothers part of the time and they need to be raised by father or father figure part of the time and be taught how to be a man a woman can only teach a man how to be a man from the perspective of how he should treat a woman but she can't treat him how to be a man in response to other men especially men of varying degrees of aggression and uh and uh egotism and cuntism yeah i think i just made that word that's a word put that shit in the webster dictionary that's it cuntism guys remember that yeah but like you need both sides it's it's the yen and the yang you need both sides of that But this is why we have families. Yeah. This is why, like, I am a very much firm believer on the nuclear family. Like, we need good women and we need good men. Yeah. Because they create a good future. But the narrative push now is you don't need anyone. You're independent. You're strong alone. It's fine. You can do everything yourself, you know. But no, it doesn't work like that. No. But we also don't need nuclear families where the dad's an asshole. 100%. teaches the son the wrong way to understand violence and bullies the kid and then the kid goes and bullies other kids i'm a i i love kids and i will be the best father if i get the opportunity to have kids i'll make mistakes but i know i'll be a good father but at the same time i don't believe everyone should have kids because that little person comes into the world very like a blank canvas innocent free if you don't have your shit together as a man or as a woman you're destroying that kid's life correct and we repeat this buzzword generational trauma you know we continue the cycle we do the very thing that our parents did which we wish to break onto our children yeah so as much as i love the idea of yeah we need family we need kids in the world not everyone should have kids you're single aren't you yeah he's single ladies he's smart as fuck too get on it well there only one view at his podcast yeah but not not not mom that be That be fucking weird That be fucking weird That be weird yeah But it Yes I with you on that Like kids are very much important but not everyone should be having kids Absolutely And it doesn mean that okay I now a perfect man and this is my perfect partner we can have a child. We're going to fuck up. Yeah. Because there's no text. You can read as many books as you want and we're out to raise a kid. But until you're in this scenario, that knowledge isn't, it's bullshit. Yeah. It goes back to what we were talking about earlier about me possibly second on stage for Men's Classic. sorry a master's classic to be a better prep coach i need to go there i'm not going to coach people into that because i've not gone there same thing as a father i can read all the textbooks have all that stuff but until i'm in the actual scenario i have fucking no idea no experience yeah