Boundaries, Conflict, and Protection

i think kids should be playing and fighting that's it yeah and then learning how to make up yeah and learning how to like take your black eye and shake shake hands and then be friends again. But you get that with men. Like you could, you can, you can have your best friend and the next minute you're having a fist cup and you're like banging your shirt up the next minute, your best friends again. That's it. That's just, that's how you learn. That's it. I mean, that's, that's how you learn when to run your mouth and when to shut your mouth and how far you can push somebody before they're going to strike you back. Yeah. And I think there's, if kids need, I think kids need to learn that at an early age because then they get to an adulthood and they don't know the boundaries and the limits of another man. and then they get punched in the fucking face. Or they get put in hospital or they get stabbed or they get hurt really bad. Or they're terrified to protect somebody when they see somebody getting hurt in public. You see videos all the time. In New York, like people crazy, somebody crazy, maybe they got psychosis, maybe they're on drugs and they're running around the subway and they're screaming and yelling and they're grabbing people and hitting women and not a single man steps in. Instead, they pull their phones out and they record it when what they should be doing is taking action. But then a guy did take action and put a gun on the ground, and the guy died. And the next thing is he's in court trying to justify why he needed to protect everybody. He's trying not to go to jail. It's fucking insanity. That's what I was going to say. And I see that here in this country when often it's the one that steps in that gets in trouble, not the one that committed the crime. And people will go, well, that's what the cops are for. There weren't any cops on that subway train. Like, what, is he supposed to just stand there and let it happen?